2) People are inherently well iteenniontd, even layers of advice, like âstay strongâ and âhe's in a better place nowâ. Tip: 80% of people have some type of advice around death â on the whole, as survivor it's quite relentless 5-10 ppl/day with advice is difficult to deal with. Please consider the power of this âThe First Duty of Love is to Listenâ.